What does it mean?

Watermelons have seeds you either spit out or swallow, and here "seed" means semen, so it asks about oral sex.

How to use it

Only for a partner or someone who clearly likes crude jokes. To anyone else it's an explicit sexual question.

How to reply

I'd put you in the fruit salad nobody finishes.

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